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Chris Miles Bio

Chris Miles, the “Cash Flow Expert,” is a leading authority on how to quickly free up and create cash flow for thousands of his clients, entrepreneurs, and others internationally! He’s an author, speaker, and radio host that has been featured in US News, CNN Money, Bankrate, Entrepreneur on Fire, and has spoken to thousands getting them fast financial results.

Chris consistently teaches audiences how to do what no other financial advisers can or will – achieve financial prosperity, NOW AND IN THE FUTURE, while spending time doing what they love most!

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Get What You Want Faster!

I’m so grateful to have you on because I am giddy for this episode we got here, especially if you want to know how to get what you want fast. To remind you, check out our website. Go to MoneyRipples.com. Check out our free blogs and podcasts. We’ve also got great events. If you haven’t been to our Wealth Empowerment Intensive, you got to go. I’m telling you, you can register online for that. If you’re looking for somebody real to take a look and say, “Is there a potential in my situation? Is there something I can do? I’m making more money, but I don’t know where it all goes. I feel like I should be better off. I don’t want to own a job. I want to own my business. I want to do better in that.”

If that’s where you are, go ahead and send me an email at Chris@MoneyRipples.com. Shoot me an email and say, “Chris, I would like to take advantage of that Money Leak Evaluation to see where we’re at.” Get with me on that one. I’ll see if I can get you one of my consultants to look at that deeper. Speaking of going deeper, I want to go deeper into the mind in this episode because all wealth is created in the mind first. Many people say, “What’s the strategy for this? What’s the strategy for that?”

The strategies are great, but you got to understand the real core principles that create these strategies in the first place. That’s how I was able to create a lot of strategies I do because it was created in my mind first. I want to share experiences. There’s one of my clients with who I spoke. We were talking about some strategies we’re doing. We’re doing some pretty amazing stuff for them that I’m excited about. We did some cool things and are just a few months in. As we were talking, we got into what they wanted. I have noticed that sometimes I get focused on getting people financial results. I sometimes forget to get into the rest of their life because there’s so much you can cover on the financial end.

I started asking about, “What is it you want to see? What do you want to live?” The wife, in particular, was a little bit hesitant or resistant to doing that because her husband had said to ask her to do the same thing. She’s like, “I don’t know.” I started to dig deeper, and she got emotional. It’s a neat thing that I can get to that heart space with people. She started to get emotional and talked about how, as a kid, she was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. She was told she could never have kids. This is her dream. Her dream was to be a mom and have kids.

You've got to have clarity of your vision on what you truly want. If you don't know what you want, you'll never get it. Click To Tweet

She had a big family she grew up with, and she wanted to have a family of her own. She was told she could never have kids, and something powerful happened. She got married. What ended up happening is her husband said, “We’re having a hard time with this. We’ve lost some babies. Let’s change this. Let’s see what we want. Let’s create this. Let’s believe that this could happen.” Three months later, they got pregnant with our oldest child, and now they’ve got a whole litter of children. They’ve got tons of children now. They got four kids. It’s cool to see that they’re able to create that from what seems to be something impossible.

They’re able to defy the odds of even physical health. They were able to overcome what many people would consider a disability and have a large family. I share that because money is similar. Many people think, “I would like to have money, but I can’t do this or that.” They come up with excuses. They come up with excuses because they don’t know how to create them. It’s all wealth. This isn’t just money, but true riches like wealth and happiness in all areas of your life come from starting in your mind first.

I want to break down exactly what you need to do to start to see these results faster. Number one, you got to know it. You need to know it. You need to know what you want. I remember Mark Twain has a quote saying, “I can get people whatever they want in life. I just can’t find anybody who knows what they want.” I’ve seen this to be true.

Many people just don’t know what they want. You’ve got to have clarity in your vision of what you truly want. If you don’t know what you want, you’ll never get it. If you have this big, vague vision of what you want to achieve or have in your life, you will wonder why you don’t get it the right way or the way you want it to. It’s because of this reason. You got to be in a place where you can do that. You got to know it.

 

Write it down. Don’t just write it down like, “I want this. I want that.” Write it down as if it’s happening now. It’s almost like you’re playing a movie in front of your eyes, saying, “Here’s what I see in the movie. I have this. I am this. I’m doing this.” You’re running in that context where you can feel it. You know what you have. Spell it out. That’s the first step. You got to know. You got to write it down.

The second one is you got to see it. This helps you when you start to know it because as you start to see it, you start to see how it can play out. That’s when it gets to be cool because the clearer the image you have in your mind, the easier it is to get it. I remember this happened to me back in 2006. The first time I started learning these principles, I started to understand the mind. This happened to me, too. I was listening to a radio show by some millionaires that were talking about all the things that were going on.

In this, I remember thinking, “I want to create something more.” I remember thinking, “What car do I want?” Up to that point, I had a decent car. It wasn’t horrible. It was a nice old used car for service purposes. I wanted a nicer one. I was like, “I want a nicer car.” I decided on a Mercedes. I didn’t know exactly what brand it was, but I wanted a Mercedes. That’s at least where I started.

I had an idea of what it looked like, at least. It’s funny. I went out to lunch with some friends. These friends had some good times and some bad times. They sat down with me, and we had lunch at good old Olive Garden because that’s where all the business happens. As we’re sitting down, one of the guys makes a snide remark. He says, “Chris, you got that Mercedes yet?” He’s laughing about it.

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In shock, I said, “Did I tell you that I was going to get Mercedes? That’s weird.” His smile dropped off his face. He said, ” I was just joking.” “I’m planning to get that.” This was in March 2015. I said, “I’m planning to get it by July when I have to renew my registration on my car.” You could tell something had shifted in me that created an interesting response in him. The funny thing is they went from them acting egotistical and having a lot of pride to all of a sudden turning around and having a good conversation. It was a friendly conversation. We didn’t feel like we were trying to beat each other’s chest. It was an enjoyable moment.

If you don’t know it but can see it, it’s amazing what happens. The funny thing is I ended up getting a Mercedes in May. My second child, my oldest daughter, was born. That same week, I went to my brother-in-law and said, “You want to go on a date?” My brother-in-law said, “That’s weird. Why are you saying that?” I said, “I want to go out car shopping,” because he was a car guy. He said, “What are you looking for, Chris?” I said, “I’m looking for a Mercedes.” He said, “What kind?” I said, “Something more like an E-Class, maybe. I’m not sure which number, but more like E-Class. That’s my style.”

He smiled at me and said, “Why don’t you buy my car?” “Do you have a Mercedes?” “It’s in my garage. I only drive it on the weekends, but I’ve had it for about nine months.” I said, “Let’s take a look at it.” It wasn’t the exact same color I wanted. I’ll tell you that much, but he had me hooked because he said, “This is alabaster white. Not many people have this. This is a rare color. That’s why I got it.” “Cool.”

A week later, I had the car. It wasn’t easy to go from a car that was about $6,000 as a used car value, if that much, to all of a sudden something that I bought for over $60,000 used. That was a big leap, but because I could see it, it was much easier to receive it. That’s the thing. Whatever you can see, you can receive, so you got to be able to see it.

 

The next thing is you got to experience it. One of the best ways to manifest something faster and get it faster is not only to see or know it. That’s huge. If you can experience it and you could be in that situation, that’s where it becomes better. This is not, “Fake it until you make it.” I wish somebody would remove that phrase from people’s memories forever.

“Fake it until you make it” is completely insincere and doesn’t work. You cannot fake anything because you know you’re faking it. When you know you’re a fake, you know that you don’t get results. You cannot fake it until you make it. It’s not even just acting as if, even though that’s closer. I like to say experience as if. Using that car example, if you can imagine saying, “What would it be like to drive that car?” Once you go for a test drive, experience it, feel it, be in it, know what it’s like to drive it, hold that experience in your mind, and watch how fast it happens.

You not only know and see it, but you can experience it, touch it, taste it, feel it, and be in it. Even if it’s just in your mind or you’ve never experienced it before, you can experience something brand new by going there in your mind. Wherever you go, it’s a good start. Start there. Get to a place where you’re living in your mind when your mind can vividly create that image almost to the point where you wonder what’s real and what’s not, which in truth if it’s in your mind, it is becoming a reality. You are creating that reality.

If you can’t hold that experience or image in your mind, it doesn’t happen. The reason why people who oftentimes have money keep creating more money is that they know what it’s like to have more money. If you want to have more money, you have to get to a place to do that. Many people don’t know how to get to that heightened place sometimes because they don’t know what it’s like.

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Some people will say, “Chris, I’ve never been a success before. How would I do that?” I bet they’ll say they haven’t been successful in business, but have you been successful elsewhere? Were you ever successful in sports? Were you ever successful with a hobby? Were you ever successful with feeling good at the moment with your family and spending time with your family? What did that feel like?

You want to carry that feeling into your business, money, and life. Watch what happens when you start to experience it, feel it, and be there in it. Watch how quickly things will turn around and how quickly you’ll start to see those things happen. The best ways I’ve been able to pull out of a funk in my business, like when you have a month that’s slow, is instead of wallowing in what is going on or being like, “It’s been a slow month. It seems like things aren’t happening as fast as I want.” When I’m in that place, I extend it. I make it go longer. When I say, “I know what it’s like to be this. I remember this month when I did this and how it felt with this.”

It’s so cool when you have that $50,000 a month. It’s like, “That’s awesome.” I know how that feels, the freedom that came with that, and being able to live in it. All of a sudden, within 1 week or 2, “There it is.” It’s because you can know it. You get to a place where you don’t see it but feel it through and through. Get to that place.

The last thing is to live it. This is where you’re not acting as if. This is where you are. When you can start to experience it, you start to truly live it, and then the results show up. It could be minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, or years. Whatever it is, relax. Live it and have that faith that it’s happening. Keep moving forward. Don’t give up too soon because it takes its own time. Usually, the bigger the vision, the longer it takes, but not always.

 

Let me give you one last example or story of how this worked for me. In 2007, I decided to come out of retirement. I created a new business with some other partners. We had a guy come to our office. He was teaching about the mind a lot. He asked at the beginning of that weekend, “What would it take to make this weekend worthwhile?”

At that time, I was trying to get some extra capital for the business. I had a lot of equity trapped on my property. I was like, “I don’t know. I can’t get it out. The banks have started to tighten it up. Where am I going to get the money?” I said, “For this to be worthwhile for me because I would be doing this anyways trying to figure out the answer, I need $50,000. I need to know where to get that by the end of this weekend.”

$50,000 was a big deal. It’s hard to do, but I got there. I was stressed about it, but I said, “I’m going to relax and enjoy the weekend.” We’re learning stuff. That was a Friday and a Saturday type of event. Friday, no answers. Saturday, no answers. Saturday afternoon, all of a sudden, it hit me because I knew that if I didn’t have the money, who did? How can I get the money? What assets do I have? What resources do I have?

It’s not just from my own assets that I have physically, but how about even relationships and so forth? All of a sudden, it hit me. I said, “I know exactly where to get the money and how I can leverage my house.” I went to somebody and said, “I need $50,000. Here’s what you get.” They said, “Okay.” By the next Wednesday, I had a $52,000 check in hand. It works, people. It does. When you start to know what you want, you can see, experience, and feel it. You then start to live it. What will happen is that you will have it. That’s exactly what happens. That’s how you start to have it at that point.

I want to wish you guys the best. Make it an amazing and prosperous week. Go out and be abundant. Don’t just talk. Go and do. Be that person. Live it, experience it, be a part of it, and get those results. Share those experiences with me. I love to hear great stories of experiences. If I can be a part of your journey, invite me to be a part of your journey to help you make that happen. Everybody, make it a great week. We’ll talk to you next episode.

 

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