{"id":419,"date":"2013-10-02T15:46:35","date_gmt":"2013-10-02T22:46:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chrismiles.wphelp.ninja\/2013\/10\/02\/has-only-the-government-shut-down\/"},"modified":"2017-04-21T12:50:19","modified_gmt":"2017-04-21T19:50:19","slug":"has-only-the-government-shut-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moneyripples.com\/money-ripples-st\/?p=419","title":{"rendered":"Has Only the Government Shut Down?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have had these thoughts running through my mind for the last several months, but it&#8217;s taken an event like the &#8220;government shutdown&#8221; to inspire me to write about it.<\/p>\n<p>I am not a politician or a political expert. I&#8217;m only writing on things I have observed that some might see as unrelated, but I believe them to be part of the same problem.<\/p>\n<p>I am frustrated with the government as much as anyone and I hold them responsible for what&#8217;s happening in their stewardship. However, it isn&#8217;t surprising to me that this is happening because we, as Americans, have been doing the same thing.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Politicians are only a mirror image of the people that elect them.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><\/span><\/strong>When I hear people say things like, &#8220;Politicians are corrupt&#8221;, &#8220;Politicians are idiots&#8221;, or &#8220;Politicians (on either side of the aisle) are too stubborn and need to start working together&#8221;, I wonder why others don&#8217;t see that THEY ARE US!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Think about it. They are elected by US! The reason they&#8217;re in office is because we felt they represented our viewpoints best. And typically, politicians are elected from among ourselves. They weren&#8217;t bred as a separate species of the human race. They aren&#8217;t any better, or worse, than any of us. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In fact, if you believe that they are the best from among ourselves, we should be more seriously concerned about where we are headed as a society.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline; font-size: 10pt;\"><strong>&#8220;It&#8217;s not my fault. <em>They<\/em> are the problem.&#8221;<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n<p>Ever heard politicians say this before? How many times have you heard others not take responsibility and blame you for something? Have you said it yourself? Did you ever say, &#8220;I wish someone would do something about this?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When are WE going to do something about it?<\/p>\n<p>When are we going to take responsibility for our own decisions too, or will we continue to complain and moan like Jim Carrey&#8217;s character in &#8220;Liar, Liar&#8221; when his car got towed and honestly admitted he wasn&#8217;t going to do anything about it.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">&#8220;Why can&#8217;t they come to an agreement?&#8221;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><\/span><\/strong><\/span>If you have ever been on Facebook, you should know the answer. Look at how people respond to others&#8217; opinions on social media. (In fact, how are you responding to mine right now?)&nbsp; It is a rare treat to see two people disagree on a subject, but walk away either finding common ground or &#8220;agreeing to disagree.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We have become so convinced our way or opinion is the only way it can be. &#8220;I&#8217;m right and you&#8217;re wrong! If you disagree with me, let me unfriend you. That&#8217;ll teach ya!&#8221; I&#8217;m not saying that everyone&#8217;s opinion makes sense, but if you want to be listened to, try listening to others&#8217; opinions first.<\/p>\n<p>A woman disagreed with me about whether we need health insurance. We both got a little fired up in our opinions based on our experiences.<\/p>\n<p>However, in the end, we both agreed that we respected each other and our opinions, and acknowledged we had different experiences that shaped our viewpoints. The end! I didn&#8217;t need to call her names, try to ruin her reputation, or argue until I turned blue in the face. I didn&#8217;t have to call all of my friends and tell them how stupid or ignorant she was. But how often do we see others doing that to each other? I&#8217;ve seen more friendships and marriages ruined because we think if we are right. Is it possible that the others&#8217; point of view could be right? Do we really think we are the authority on every subject known to man?<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The only way we can be right is to admit that we are often wrong!<\/span><\/strong><\/span> (My wife reminds me of this constantly)<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><strong>By the way, if we call politicians dumb, and they are supposed to be the most qualified and smartest people to make these decisions for us, what are we saying about <em>our<\/em> intelligence?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Let me sum up the last several decades of politics in a few sentences&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>We elect politicians and insist that everyone else is wrong. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Those politicians fail us. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>We blame them and don&#8217;t acknowledge our responsibility for putting them there. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>We elect someone new hoping to get a different result.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>How has that worked so far?<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><strong>My proposed solution (that&#8217;s only an opinion):<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Work on our own attitudes and morals by becoming the type of person we want to elect<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Encourage others, especially those in our families to take responsibility for our actions, stick to morals of love, integrity, and honesty, listen respectfully to others&#8217; opinions (especially when they differ from our own), and look for common ground.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Take the time to elect individuals we feel exemplify those values, and even consider running for office ourselves. I would LOVE to vote for someone that follows these first two points!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>This is only my opinion and subject to debate. I welcome it and respect you for having a different opinion. Who knows? I might even agree with you!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have had these thoughts running through my mind for the last several months, but it&#8217;s taken an event like the &#8220;government shutdown&#8221; to inspire me to write about it. I am not a politician or a political expert. I&#8217;m only writing on things I have observed that some might see as unrelated, but I <a href=\"https:\/\/moneyripples.com\/money-ripples-st\/?p=419\" class=\"more-link\">&#8230;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">  Has Only the Government Shut Down?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-419","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog-and-podcasts"],"acf":[],"rttpg_featured_image_url":null,"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"Chris Miles","author_link":"https:\/\/moneyripples.com\/money-ripples-st\/author\/chris"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/moneyripples.com\/money-ripples-st\/?cat=8\" rel=\"category\">Blog and Podcasts<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"I have had these thoughts running through my mind for the last several months, but it&#8217;s taken an event like the &#8220;government shutdown&#8221; to inspire me to write about it. 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